Saturday, December 29, 2012

Mya and Milani: Fav Moments of 2012

As 2012 comes to end, I must say I was continually blessed. I was able to move into a new apartment (which we are about to move again), I was able to go back to work with a new job, found an affordable day care and best of all, I was able to see another year of the growth and development of my now 17 month old twins. Here is my favorite pictures of them from the year 2012. Enjoy!

January 2012
Mya and Milani at 6 months in our second apartment
Mya sits without support

February 2012
Giants in the Superbowl (and won!)
Aunt Taffy and Trippy finally visit the girls

March 2012
Milani finally understands the walker 

Mya understands too

The girls visit their GiGi at work

April 2012 
Easter Church time (Milani)

 Milani visits her Nana (dad's side) she is 94 years old!

Mya and her nanny

May 2012
Mondays on Preemietwinsandme is Milani Mondays (we stopped, but we may continue)
Milani's first tooth comes in 
First day of daycare! 

June 2012
Milani and her uncle
 Mya and GiGi
Fun day at the park

 We are crawling!

July 2012
Happy 1st Birthday Mya and Milani!!

Cake made by Make my Cake in Harlem

Beach theme party and Milani wanted out of the turtle

August 2012

The day at the beach (for the first time)

It was a long day

One of the hottest days in the summer (Mya)

Milani, she looks tan!

September 2012
The twins were trying to escape

At their uncles sixth birthday

October 2012
Milani decides she wants to sit on her play kitchen

We are walking with the push toy!

November 2012
Milani watching Gabba

Mya taking a step

Thanksgiving 2012, with GiGi, great-grandma Bonnie and great-grandpa Boss

 First time at a hotel (Thanksgiving 2012) Just walking around lol

Ordering at Ihop

 Milani discovers how to hug her dolls

December 2012
We were going to take Christmas photos, but it didn't go too well (Mya)

 Milani by our Christmas Tree

 Christmas Morning! Opening the second gift

Milani's first car

Mya has one too.

And there you have it. Our wrap up of 2012. The girls learned to walk, eat more table food and has gone away from baby food. They shake their heads no, clap, mock you, throw tantrums, argue with each other, love each other, and being lovable toddlers. I can't wait to see what is in store for 2013!

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Friday, December 7, 2012

I Say Keep the Stretch Marks and Baby Fat!

Two things mothers can't wait for after the baby is born; work out intense to get their pre-baby figure and get rid of the stretch marks. As I write this blog eating a double chocolate chip fudge cookie from Subway's, you probably see where I am getting at.

Before I gave birth to my twins, I was not a size zero; I had a little budge, but I was not fat. Lets go back even further; all through high school and junior year of college, I was considered skinny. I was 110 lbs forever and it wasn't until I got a car during my junior year of college that the fat kicked in. Yes, I was not affected by the freshmen fifteen, more like the junior twenty. Let's fast forward. I was never health conscious either. I did and still do eat what I want, but it is nothing major. I do not stuff my face with five waffles, chicken wings, french fries, McDonalds daily, etc. I do not stuff my face with salads every day either.

There were days that I would look in the middle pre-babies and say "I really need to loose this weight," and then a week later, I would get bored of exercising and start eating junk. After my twins were born, like most mom's, I decided I needed to loose the belly. Being teased for being too skinny for a long time, I was content with the thickness that I had developed, but I did want my old flat stomach again.  I joined Weight Watchers and I even coughed up $100.00 for Insanity DVDS  and although I did see results with Insanity, I slowly found myself getting bored and having the urge to eat the junk foods again. By the third week, I stopped; I got unmotivated.

I went back to the mirror and I took a hard look at myself and I wasn't ashamed of what I saw. Weird right? But I wasn't. Here I was a 26 year old African American women who did what others dream of, having twins. I turned to the side and noticed the dark stretch marks that had made a home around my body and I was proud of them; it reminded of me what a blessing it was to carry my girls for as long as I did; it reminded me of how amazing a women's body is, what changes we go through. Even with my bulge, people still tell me I look great for carrying twins or I do not look like I carried twins (that could also be because I look so young).

Who am I trying to impress? My fiance? Who may think I should loose the bulge, but loves me regardless, but in the past, I was teased for being too skinny, now I get teased for being thick or they are not use to me being this thick. It's a loose loose situation in regards to my families approval.

One day, I will be ready to "Dig Deeper" and loose the bulge, as of now, I am content how I look and who I am. I say Keep The Stretch Marks!!! I say Keep The Post-Baby Body!!...Until you are ready to loose it.

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