Monday, May 7, 2012

For Moms by Moms : Let Me Introduce Myself

Hi everyone!

For those who do not know, I am mom of multiples (twins to be specific) and today I am linking up with Heather from Just Wait Till You Have Kids Monday link up Introduce Ourselves.

I am Jamila, I am mother of twin fraternal girls who are 9 months old now Mya and Milani. I did not know that I was pregnant with twins until I was 13 weeks and the ultrasound technician informed me after I told her that I already had a sonogram with a picture of one bean! My pregnancy was smooth sailing aside from the constant morning sickness, back aches, feet swelling and irritability but a week after mothers day I received the most shocking news....

24 weeks pregnant, my cervix opened 1 cm. Spending one week in the hospital, my doctor told me that I was officially on bed rest. I spent one month at my mothers house because she was close the hospital where I was to deliver and my doctor and I spent the next month at home in New Jersey because I missed my fiance and my dog Snoopy. July 18th 2011, my fiance and I drove to Brooklyn, New York to the hospital to start the weekly check up of the girls heart when the nurse told me that I was having contractions...again. I was admitted into the hospital and July 19th, 2011 at 6pm Mya arrived weighing 3 lb 9 oz and at 6:01pm Milani arrived weighing 3 lb 1 oz all via c-section. Less than a month in the NICU with no complications other than to learn to feed and gain weight, a day before my baby shower, Mya came home and week later Milani came home and my family was complete. This is a brief summary of my entire pregnancy.

It was not difficult being a mother of preemies, it has been a journey being a NEW mom of twins; but like I say, God will give what you can handle and he knows that my fiance and I can handle this.

I am a writer, received my B.A. in print journalism and I am working on my M.S. in Mental Health Counseling. I am from Brooklyn, NY but now reside in New Jersey. I am getting married September 29th 2012 and my goal is to make my girls famous, have a great career, not stress about finances and to become a popular mom blogger.

I do not have many friends and I am searching to connect with moms like myself, stay at home (temporarily) and moms that have multiples.

Read my blog and find out about parenting tips and my journey with the girls.

Happy Reading!



8 comments:

  1. Beautiful family! Stopping by from Heather's MOMs link up! Can't wait to read more :)

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    1. Thank you so much! I can't wait to read more of your blogs as well, great writing!

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  2. Hi Jamila! Thanks for linking up with us at FMBM!

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  3. Found you through the link up. I'm so happy your girls did not have more complications. One of mine was 5.14 which I realize is good for twins, but he seemed so tiny, I can't imagine how tiny yours must have been.

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    1. Hello! Thank you for reading. I enjoy reading your blogs and will continue to follow, hopefully you will do the same. My girls were 3 lb 9 oz (Mya, twin A) and 3 lb 1 oz (Milani, twin b). However, they didn't look so small. They were 5 lbs by 2 months I believe.

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  4. Thanks for visiting my blog :) Your lovely yourself ..and those twins...oh my living DOLLS! Look forward to reading your posts!

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